Ukwabelana ngesondo ebusheni bunemiba evuyisayo: imizimba emihle kumaqabane amabini, ukukhululeka okukhulu, ukuzimisela ukunceda, nakumbandela wokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwezesondo. Lo dade wabona ukuba umnakwabo uqaqadekile, ephelelwa ngumoya, waza ke wagqiba kwelokuba amunyise aze amvumele amteketise. Ekugqibeleni bavuswa, baqala ukukhwela ekhitshini kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.
Kum ingathi lo mama unganelisekiyo, ufana nowesibini, ovuyela nje ukuba nethambo elinjalo.