Ukwabelana ngesondo ebusheni bunemiba evuyisayo: imizimba emihle kumaqabane amabini, ukukhululeka okukhulu, ukuzimisela ukunceda, nakumbandela wokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwezesondo. Lo dade wabona ukuba umnakwabo uqaqadekile, ephelelwa ngumoya, waza ke wagqiba kwelokuba amunyise aze amvumele amteketise. Ekugqibeleni bavuswa, baqala ukukhwela ekhitshini kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.
Umbono wale ntombazana sele uvuse umphathi wakhe, kodwa akonelanga waza wamcela ukuba akhulule. Ukucoca akuzange kuhlale ixesha elide, de waphula umonde wakhe waza wafaka iqhude emlonyeni wakhe. Emva koko ungene kwilungu lobufazi lakhe ngasemva ngokunjalo.